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Clubs and nights, city by city

A free UK guide for open-minded couples. No account, no sign-up.

Most listings for this scene are years out of date. We’re building an honest one: real addresses, the nights each venue actually runs, and who each night is for — checked with the venues rather than scraped.

What’s on Open the calendar →

Every club’s weekly nights on one calendar, plus the one-off parties we’ve had confirmed.

Clubs near you

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By city

Manchester

Greater Manchester · 5 venues listed

The densest scene outside London, and the only one of the big three northern cities with a brand-new on-premise venue. Several clubs run in and around the city, and one of them opens seven nights a week.

Birmingham

West Midlands · 1 venue listed

A large scene spread thin: the venues sit out in Sandwell, Walsall and Aston rather than clustering near the centre, so plan the journey before the night.

Blackpool

Lancashire · 4 venues listed

Four venues in one resort town — the densest cluster outside the big cities, and all of them within reach of a single night out.

Leeds

West Yorkshire · 2 venues listed

Fewer clubs than its size suggests — both sit on the edge of the city, and the council’s licensing policy caps new venues outside the centre. What Leeds has instead is events: the party brands run here more often than anywhere else in the north.

Nottingham

Nottinghamshire · 1 venue listed

A compact scene with a genuine on-premise club right by the river at Trent Bridge, a short hop from the city centre — no long trek out to an industrial estate.

Glasgow

Scotland · 1 venue listed

The scene here centres on one long-running club on the leafy west side — weekend evenings and the odd monthly afternoon rather than a nightly door.

Derby

Derbyshire · 1 venue listed

A single, long-running club out at Allenton — an easy Midlands stop, open most evenings and refreshingly membership-free.

New to this?

Straight answers to the things people look up privately first — what a first visit is actually like, what the door policies mean, and how to have the conversation with your partner before you go.

Your first time at a club

What actually happens, from the car park to the taxi home — and why it’s usually calmer than you’re imagining.

Door policies, decoded

What “couples and single females”, “on-premise” and “by invitation” actually mean, and why clubs word it that way.

Soft swap, full swap, and the bit in between

The vocabulary people use, what it does and doesn’t pin down, and why your version is the only one that matters.

How to have the conversation first

The bit that decides how the rest goes — including what to do when one of you is keener than the other.

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Elsewhere in the UK

Clubs we know are running but haven’t confirmed the details for yet. We list the name and the town rather than guess at an address — they’ll get a full entry as we check them.

Yorkshire & the North East

North West

West Midlands

East Midlands

London

South East

South West

Scotland

Wales

Northern Ireland

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